Another year has come and (almost) gone and here we are in
November again, thinking about those things for which we are the most thankful.
This post started out to be about my children, as they are
for sure the greatest achievement of my life…but then I started thinking about
all the other things I’m truly grateful for, and it surprised even
me how numerous in number they are. For the
most part, except for a few bumps here and there, I’ve lived a pretty charmed
and wonderful life.
I learned pretty early in life that I have not been graced
with luck. I have the worst luck of
anyone I know. If it’s gonna happen to
anyone, it’s gonna happen to me (so don’t stand next to me in a lightening
storm…lol). One day, I was complaining to my mom and she said “God
made you pretty, sexy, AND smart…you’ve used up all your luck and have to make
your own from now on”…and so it’s been...
Needless to say, I’m grateful to God for THAT…but amongst my
other blessings, let’s include these:
It’s Kathy Packish talking to me on the phone for an hour
every morning for the last year and a half, and Cheryl taking over from there after I hang up; Lynda Chafel for sharing the Hello Kitty bedroom and sneaking out for cider with me to keep me laughing the whole time; Traci Kohler for her specialized understanding...lol; it's my mom and
dad making sure I had a carefree and amazing life, with traditions and values I
could pass on to my children; it’s every boyfriend I’ve ever had being above
and beyond amazing, especially Tommy and Porter for loving me even though my
hands smelled like garlic and onions every day for 3 years (each!) because they were my kitchen guinea pigs; it’s
Lance making sure I had the home and children of my dreams; Chris Payson, who kept coming in and out of my
life for the last 30 years because he just couldn’t stay away, thereby
deeming
me “too sexy to forsake”…lol; Greigh
Hall who I wouldn’t talk to for 20 years but had the tenacity to work his way
back in anyway, proving that real love never goes away, even with
friends; Laurie Albanos for checking on me every day after surgery, and Kristy
Buschle asking me to call her if I need to giggle; the people who repeatedly invite me to be on their golf team though I just taught myself how to play last summer; Steve Egan for believing dearly
that misery loves company; Scot and Christina
Jones for making me their first phone call when they moved back to town; Dave
Parnell for continually pointing out that my often-times faulty thinking of
late is not in keeping with someone as smart as myself…and to keep checking in
anyway; and it's my loving and supportive family who reminds me every day that disappointments do not define you.
CK and CP 1988 |
…and the list goes on
and on…
Miracles happen every day. Tomorrow, take the time to think about the ones that have changed YOUR life, and how thankful you are that they did. It’s easy to get caught up thinking about what we DON’T have because somehow it’s easier to focus on those things. But everything happens for a reason, and just because you didn’t get the winning lottery ticket…or the big promotion…or to live on an island with the love of your life...doesn’t mean that something better isn’t around the corner. Be patient and have faith…give it to God and go to sleep…if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. And if not, something else will.
Greigh Hall 1987ish |
Miracles happen every day. Tomorrow, take the time to think about the ones that have changed YOUR life, and how thankful you are that they did. It’s easy to get caught up thinking about what we DON’T have because somehow it’s easier to focus on those things. But everything happens for a reason, and just because you didn’t get the winning lottery ticket…or the big promotion…or to live on an island with the love of your life...doesn’t mean that something better isn’t around the corner. Be patient and have faith…give it to God and go to sleep…if it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. And if not, something else will.
Happy Thanksgiving from my heart to yours,
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